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Don't Be A Dick Change Yourself Change Your WorldIor tends to backfire leaving them feeling isolated and unsure why their seemingly justified actions consistently yield such poor results If you’re constantly using the refrain It’s not me it’s them whenever something goes wrong Mark Borg is here to tell you that it is in fact you The good news is there is something you can do to reverse these behaviors and live a happierfulfilling li I liked DrBorg’s latest book Having read all of his other “Irrelationship” books I had high expectations and was not disappointed It is a pretty easy book to finish with practical exercises for the reader Don’t let the jocular title fool you DrBorg is a serious scholar and if you like me enjoy learning about psychology you will definitely like the book and probably learn somethingI’d recommend it

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mobi Ú Don't Be A Dick Change Your World read ☆ ➾ [Download] ➻ Don't Be A Dick: Change Yourself, Change Your World By Join or create book clubs ➷ – The single book therapists everywhere will recommend to all of their patients because at some point or another we all behave like dicksWhy thiThe single book therapists everywhere will recommend to all of their patients because at some point or another we all behave like dicksWhy this book? Because you might be a dick a mean spirited self focused individual who thinks and acts as though everyone else in the world can only be understood―and whose only importance is defined―in terms of their relationship to you Being a dick mig I cannot possibly be the only person who thought when I saw the title to this book YES I cannot wait to buy a stack of copies of this book for the jerks in my life Finally a book for that relative who cannot resist the plunge into the political discussion that ruins the holidays every year or my colleague who harasses and abuses me day in and day out in the office or that ex who dashed my heart two decades ago orAlas that book is NOT this oneIn fact there are a few sharp turns that one is challenged to adjust to when orienting oneself to Dr Borg's solo project Don't Be A Dick1 The William Alanson White Institute trained psychoanalyst of the illustrious Irrelationship series has penned a book that reuires the traditional brown paper bag cover if you want to read it in public2 While imagining a wild guffaw like F— Feelings or a raucous hardy har har like Ahole No More Dr Borg uickly makes it clear that this book is no joke In fact he is deadly serious about recovering from what he calls dickery and dedicated to helping me the reader do the same3 One might crack this book bracing themselves for a good self flagellating spanking having their narcissism self absorption and bad behavior confronted and then pried from their habitual clutches But instead Dr Borg offers understanding compassion and an openness to receiving love and care from others as well as a consistent plea for self acceptanceWhat gives?Yes I was at first blown away that a book with this title would take on the challenge of helping the reader me address my own anxieties and insecurities and the ways they are acted out in dickish behavior But as I read on I found myself becoming increasingly optimistic about the possibility of understanding working through and letting go of those troublesome behaviors that as Dr Borg suggests are the euivalent of walking through my world wearing a kick me signFull reveal here I am one of the ones that bought this book for someone else I am one of those people who thought Oh I have a whole clientele of persons who'd be much better off NOT BEING DICKS Only to find out that it is that kind of thinking that ualifies someone in the author's use of the term as a dick And that is perhaps the most startling bait and switch operation That one can examine their bad and off putting behavior and see that the very behavior that has put us at war with the world and ourselves when relinuished can be the arch through which we walk through to find greater self awareness care acceptance and loveAs a shrink myself I might have titled this book The Deep Psychology of Dickery a word Dr Borg uses throughout the book And though categorized as Anger Management as someone who treats couples I can wholeheartedly recommend this as a book that is really about healing our relationships with others and ourselvesUmmmmmmmby the way am I the only one who in a million years would NOT have guessed all that from the title?

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